Meditative
Prayer
Just
Being with God
When
you pray, do not heap up empty phrases...
--Matthew 6:7a
Meditative Prayer
Sometimes prayer is so natural we do it without even realizing it. We
can do it even when we feel totally isolated from God.
John Ackerman, in Spiritual
Awakening, tells of a man recovering from alcoholism in a hospital.
During the night, he was delirious. He heard someone yelling out for God.
Loudly. Insistently. This agitated him because he didn’t believe there was
a God. When he regained his senses, he asked the nurse who had been crying
out to God all night long.
“It was you,” she
answered.
Other times, prayer is
almost impossible for us to achieve—even when we want to experience God
with us.
Have you ever played
with a Chinese finger puzzle? You can easily slip a finger in either end of
the woven reed tube. The problem comes when you try to pull your fingers
out. The more you pull, the tighter the tube squeezes your fingers. The more
you struggle to get them out, the harder it is to get free.
Part of the difficulty
we have with prayer is that our culture is so achievement oriented. We
believe that unless we are accomplishing something—and doing it the right
way—our actions have no value or validity. Ask the most articulate
personal to pray at a public function and he or she may feel uncomfortable
in doing so, afraid that he or she will say the wrong thing.
Personal prayer can be
even more challenging. We agonize over what we should say to God and how we
should stay it. We find that even when we are able to pray, we still can’t
connect with God.
The trick with the
Chinese finger puzzle, mentioned earlier, is that you have to stop
struggling and push your fingers in a little bit and, then, gently pull them
out of the tube.
Similarly, it may help
us to stop thinking of prayer as a process by which we have to struggle to
come up with the right things to say to God and begin to think of it as a
time when we can simply be with God. Instead of forcing ourselves to come up
with the “correct” words, a more grace-filled approach may be just to
open ourselves to an awareness of God’s loving presence with us and let
God do the rest.
An
Approach to Meditative Prayer
The following prayer can be used as a model to help you get started with, or
to give you another perspective on, this form of prayer.
Preparation
Find a comfortable place
to sit. Put both feet on the floor. Sit upright. Let your hands rest in you
lap, palms upward. Close your eyes and take a few moments to relax. Note all
the noises and sounds around you, then, let them go. If you hear anything
while praying, recognize that it is there, say, “God bless it,” and
return to your meditation. Don’t hurry the process or try to “get
something out of it.” Just allow yourself to “be” with God.
A
Model for Meditative Prayer—Take your time. Be with God.
“Gentle
God, thank you for being here with me.”
Take a breath and gently
exhale.
“I
breathe out all that separates me from you, O God.”
Take another breath.
“I
breathe in an awareness that you are with me.”
Gently exhale.
“As
Jesus breathed out his life when he said to you, ‘Father, into your hands
I place my spirit,’ so I breathe out my own life, entrusting it to your
care and keeping.”
Pause to reflect on how
God receives and cares for your life.
“I
remember this past weeks the gifts I have received from you.”
Pause
to remember special gifts of love or care or support you have recently
experienced.
“I
lift up my loved ones into your care, surrounded by your love and light.”
Pause
to see in your mind's eye those whom you love in the light of God.
“I
tell you my heart’s desires, those things for which I long.”
Pause
to share with God your deepest longings, your greatest sorrows, your highest
hopes, your most expansive joys.
“I
listen you your word. I open myself to experience you love for me.”
Pause to hear or
feel or become aware of God’s response to you.
“O
God, you have taught me that in returning and resting I shall be saved, in
quietness and confidence I shall find true strength. Lift me into your
presence, where I may be still and know that you are God, through Jesus
Christ my Savior.”
Close
with a time of quiet, keeping your mind as free of thoughts or worries as
you can. This is a time to “just be with God”.