Prayer
of Confession
Being
Honest with God and Ourselves
I
said, "I will confess my transgressions to GOD," and you forgave
the guilt of my sin.
--Psalm 32:5b
Both the Hebrew and Greek words
for sin are rooted in the an archery term for having “missed the
mark” or “fallen short of the target.” Acknowledgement of sin through
prayers of confession is a way for us to note, to ourselves and before God,
that we have missed the “mark” we believe God set for us. Traditionally,
the church has recognized three primary forms of confession: general
confession, personal confession, and sacramental confession.
Many United church of
Christ congregations use a general confession in the order of worship,
especially when the Lord’s Supper is being celebrated. General prayers of
confession typically express regret or sorrow for past communal sins,
request forgiveness from God, and resolve to make amends. For example, in
the prayer that follows, the prayer is composed of seven parts: a) opening
statement recognizing God's presence and nature, b) acknowledgement of sin's
reality, c) example of sin, d) expression of sorrow or repentance, e)
request for mercy, f) intended action that grows out of the process of
reflection and confession, and g) closing.
(a)
Most merciful God,
(b)
we confess that we are in bondage
to sin and cannot free
ourselves.
(c)
We have sinned against you
in thought, word, and deed,
by what we have done,
and by what we have left undone.
We have not loved you with our whole heart.
We have not loved our neighbors as ourselves.
(d)
We are truly sorry and we humbly repent.
(e)
For the sake of Jesus Christ,
have mercy on us.
Forgive us, renew us, and lead us,
(f)
so that we may delight in your will,
and follow in your ways,
(g)
to the glory of your name. Amen.1
General prayers of confession are typically followed by words of
absolution or assurance. These words remind of God’s forgiveness. Two
examples of are:
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Anyone
in Christ becomes a new person altogether; the past is finished and
gone, everything has become fresh and new. Friends, believe in the good
news of the gospel: In Jesus Christ, we are forgiven.3
Prayers of personal confession give us an opportunity to admit to God
those actions, thoughts, feelings, or circumstances that distance us from
the fullness of God’s intention for us. Personal confession can be a
fruitful time of self-examination and a time to seek God’s grace. This
type of confession can help to move us forward in increasingly faithful
directions. Personal confession has been part of individual Christians’
devotional lives for many centuries.
Sacramental confession
is confession before a priest or minister. While this form of confession is
not generally practiced in Protestant churches, it has a long and rich
tradition in the Roman Catholic Church where it is considered a sacrament.
Some Catholics elect to participate in sacramental confessions as a means of
deepening their own devotional life. However, Catholic doctrine maintains
that, in some instances, sin can only be forgiven through confession to and
absolution by a priest.
Confessional prayer is
not about telling God something God doesn’t already know. Nor, as some
fear, is it intended to “make us feel bad about ourselves.” Rather, it
helps us make honest connections with those thoughts and actions that fall
short of living as God wishes us to live. The act of confession and the
assurance that we are forgive provide us a release from the burden of the
sin we carry around. However, this form of prayer is only as effective as we
are willing to be honest with God and with ourselves.
An awareness of God’s grace is an important part of the
confessional prayer. Sometimes people either cannot or will not accept the
good news that we truly are forgiven. Yet, without this acceptance, our
confession is incomplete.A
Short Guide to Confessional Prayer
1.
Divide a sheet of paper into the seven sections listed below. (See
the form below for an example.)
2.
Write your own prayer by filling in each section.
a.
Opening. Write an opening address to God or use a name for God that
expresses your best sense of who God is. Include as least one quality or
attribute of God, e.g., loving, merciful.
b.
Acknowledgement of sin. In your own words, find a way to acknowledge
the ways you have “missed the mark” where God is concerned.
c.
Example of sin. Give examples of the sin you are bringing to God, and
from which you are seeking release.
d.
Expression of sorrow and repentance. In your own words, tell God how
you feel about the actions, thoughts, attitudes you’ve named and offer
words of sorrow and/or repentance.
e.
Request for mercy. Write a sentence or phrase asking for God’s
forgiveness.
f.
Intended outcome. Write a sentence or phrase that describes the
desired outcome following forgiveness, e.g., “That I may joyfully serve
you, my God.”
g.
Closing. Write a sentence, phrase, or word to close the prayer.
3.
Accept the reality of God’s forgiveness. Reading an assurance of
pardon, like the two printed above, will help with this.
